Posts Tagged ‘declutter’

Snow & Clutter, part 4: Keep up with It or …

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

Keep up with It or It’ll Get out of Control

If we don’t keep up with it …

If you skip plowing on one storm, your snow turns to ice. We get an icy driveway.

The garage is a walk from the house,  so it becomes an adventure  to get out there. I discovered the crampons, but I don’t love wearing them!

Don’t let it pile up.

One long full day storm: go out twice. If you don’t, it takes longer and it’s a nightmare figuring out where to put the snow.

With your stuff, figure out what will work for you to keep up with it.

GARAGEBEFOREIf you feel like you keep doing the grand makeover,  then something ‘s not working with your systems.

Don’t throw them out, but break it down. What step is not working? Or what step is not in the system?

Very common that papers don’t have a “release valve,” when they are older that they get purged or packed away, for example.

So analyze it , or take  in an outsider to give you perspective if you need an expert, outside set of eyes.

Track down where things are not  working for you — habits? Time? Products? Process?

Some of you will do daily pickups. Others will wait for the week to end.

Some will want quarterly declutter of all the closets or the  office supplies closet, whatever it is, a deep declutter.

Schedule time with a friend, an organizer or just with yourself.

Put it right in your calendar.

If you’re all about emotions and family connections, set a deadline to declutter in time for an event, like family coming in for your daughter’s Christening or birthday party.

Or schedule one of us to come in each quarter!

Snow & Clutter, part 3: Figure out Your System, Tweak & Educate

Monday, March 7th, 2011

Figure out Your System … and Tweak it As Things Change.

For snowplowing, I am the less experienced of the two of us.

I may suggest ideas, but I’m not the lead, which is appropriate, believe me. This system doesn’t play to my strengths  as others do in my household.

So the snowplowing system includes:

Who snowplows does not shovel. You do one or the other.

After you’re done plowing, fill up with gas. Lessons learned on that one – ready to plow and  no gas!

Supplies related to plowing stay together in one spot in the garage.

Efficiency – the route you take. Well, it’s okay to play around sometimes, too …

Always plow or the driveway turns to ice. Another lesson learned on a lazy day. Or maybe just a crazy busy workday!

We learn something new and better each year. This year, it was to buy and wear ski goggles during the high wind storms.

In every household, there are myriad systems. Figure out first who is the lead on each system.

Who has the set of strengths which will help this system work most effectively.

Who can design systems? Who prefers to follow on that system? Tweak it together over time to match how you need to use  it and how you think.

…. & Educate Everyone Else

I was finally brave enough a few years to ask if I could plow, too. Looked like fun.

Just as with that beautiful organizing system for your mail or your pantry, snowplowing requires teaching someone the system.

Teach to the learner’s style is the best advice here.

My housemate who intuitively knew how to work the John Deere. It’s harder to teach when you’re an intuitive about the system so slow down and figure out together how best  to teach and to learn.

I need specific, methodical, step by step. And I need to read it or hear it first, and then try it. I”ll catch on much faster if you help me this way.

The men in the neighborhood cheer us on, we two women plowing out on our own!

*Did you miss the first two posts about snow & clutter? Here is where the series started.

Snow & Clutter, part 2: Learn from Experience

Sunday, March 6th, 2011

Figure out the Fastest Way to Get from Point A to Point B – And Learn From Experience

When we first bought the tractor, it took experience to figure out the fastest way to clear  the three driveways.

And even now, years later, we tweak the route we take. It’s a puzzle and a challenge and we enjoy  figuring out.

One of us will figure out something new about the route to take and enjoy announcing this new approach to the other.

Or we’ll figure out how clean is clean when we put the tractor away.Sunset after a storm 7.2010 005

Or the point at which we make that turn to get it back in the garage.

Not that speed is important (except for very windy very cold days … but honestly, we get more snow than weather like that).

So each time we venture out, we learn from our experiences.

We have different strengths, and both perspectives are useful in our plowing.

We also friends (mostly men) we can call if we are stuck; they’ve been great teachers, even if we do the work ourselves. We have their brainpower alongside!

So experience helps, not only in what we learn  with each storm, but also what our friends can teach us,  as  they have many more years plowing experience.

Experience it’s often why people call me. And you also have experience -with you!

How you think, what has worked in similar projects, how you get yourself started, how you stay motivated — all these are the other half of that organization equation (and maybe more than 50% !)

Sometimes, clients call because they have the skills, but are stuck at a plateau and need a new perspective. That’s one of the strengths of an Organizer Coach.

Sometimes they don’t have the skills, or have some of them. Coaching helps to recognize which skills are useful and how we can use them in this instance.

Did you miss the  first post about snow and clutter ? Click here.

Snow Plowing & Clutter Clearing

Friday, March 4th, 2011

With a record 14 snow storms just in January ( a record in my book anyway), snow is on my brain.

I almost can’t believe it myself, but I’m going to compare snow plowing to decluttering today. Enjoy!

Figure out Your Needs First and Then Begin

In my house, about ten years ago now, we chose to buy a John Deere tractor so we could plow the snow ourselves.

We have effectively three driveways to plow – the semicircle, the straight driveway and the “around the back of the house” driveway.

We wanted control over when the driveways would be plowed.

We needed a tractor that would handle the amount of snow we  get here in New Hampshire.

And I”m sure there was a bit of “That looks like fun” in there (and it still is, most of the time). Can I do that? (I never “got to” mow the lawn when I was growing up; two brothers took it all!)

At the time, our John Deere was the newest model. Yes, one of us likes new shiny things. But that same person is intuitively mechanical and can figure out anything quickly.

These days, we both work out of the house, so it’s an even better solution today. We got our money back on this one, said the thrifty New Englander.

In organizing, you need to slow down and think about what you need first. Plunging in only serves to drown you  in clutter.

Where do you open the mail and what tools do you need near you, so the mail gets to where it needs to go – upstairs to the office, to discuss with spouse/partner/family?

Are you a shiny gadget person? Try buying a fun  new piece of technology to support your organizing project.

How do you use the various colors of yarn in your crafts space? If you organize by color, how many cubbies in your organizer does that equate to? If you organize by project, are cubbies the right answer or not?

Next post — I’m hoping that by the end of this series, maybe our snow will be green grass … here’s hoping. Oh. There are five more posts.

Let Go without Letting Go: 10 Questions You May Not Have Asked Yet

Tuesday, February 16th, 2010

“We cannot measure abundance by what we accumulate. Abundance is an experience of the heart, a wind that blows through us like a flute.  Our treasures are in the eye, the ear, and in the heart, that feels the wonder of things. ”

Wayne Muller, Legacy of the Heart.

Let go without letting go.  “No regrets” decisions.

Phrases I use often enough but how do we do this?

Shout outBelow, I share with you the first five of my top 10 questions  — ones you may not have thought of before today.


My Letting Go questions:

#1  What is it you want more time for?

What is important in this chapter of your life.

If I had less stuff to deal with, I’d have more time for ____________________.

I want to be a better role model for ___________.

I want time for me, to _________________.

#2  What does “organized enough” mean to you? Look like to you? Feel like?

Go to the area you’re thinking about working on and ask this question, then sit with it for 5 minutes. Close your eyes if that helps.

Go one level deeper. “I want to find things more easily SO THAT I can …” What does organized enough mean to you? It’s not so that your home can look like someone else’s, or how it “should” be. What do you want?

#3 If I walked into your home or home office today, what would I know about you by looking around?

Or any stranger, new friend, new relative, or new colleague. Is this an accurate picture of who you are?

What needs to leave the premises, so we to accurately describe who you are (today)?

#4  As you walk around, what things do not have a home yet? Do they need a home? Or are they taking up precious space?

What other things are hiding in the homes you want to give these important things? Which group could you reduce, or let go of? Reduce, not eliminate. A favorite phrase.

#5 Choose a donation location before you begin, not at the end of your project.

As you decide you’ll be working on clearing out your clothes closet for example, decide who might enjoy the clothes you’ll give away? A friend who has always admired your clothing? A family transition home? People re-entering the workforce?

Deciding on a donation place first makes it easier to let go — because you can conjure up a picture of how much they’ll enjoy what you’re giving away. Or, go to the donation place. Meet the group you’re donating to.

Letting go is about knowing your favorites, your priorities in life, your treasures …..and keeping them.

It’s about moving on, keeping the best of the past and bringing it with you into your next chapter.  Hopefully some of these questions will help you with that.