I’ve been writing for a few months now for The Life Change Network, with my Organizer Coach hat on. Each month, contributing writers provide articles on a variety of topics related to changes in life – the positive changes and the sorrowful ones. Change is always difficult, even if you decided to make the change. As John and Deana Ryan, the founders, say:
“We understand that life changes can be difficult. It is our goal to provide you with a community to help you better handle these life changes through education, as well as community that offers mental and emotional support that is practical and helpful.”
My latest article, Newly Single (Again): Who Deserves A Place in Your Life? offers advice on how to decide who deserves a place in your life, and I use the word “deserves” quite on purpose. Post divorce or after being widowed, there’s a long transition period. At some point in that period, you may find that certain people are not a positive energy for you to be around or they react in difficult ways.
In “6 Steps for Dealing with Difficult People.” Debbie LaChusa says that their actions are often driven by an emotion such as fear.
” I’ve found that most times when we step back, we find it’s not the person, but the situation that’s difficult.”
Change is difficult. People can appear to be difficult. Look beneath what they’re showing you. Use some of the questions in my article to decide whether they belong in your life, as you move forward.
If you enjoyed these two articles, next month’s theme is “major life changes.” I’m discussing “Regroup, Remember and Reorganize – The New Three R’s. ” Other upcoming themes are:
| June | Work-Life Balance |
| July | Choosing Your Path |
| August | Change in Lifestyle / Back-to-School |
| September | Life Lessons |
| October | Overcoming Fears |
| November | Family Dynamics / Holidays |
| December | Holidays / Gratitude |
So if you’re in need of advice and ideas for dealing with a life change, check out The Life Change Network on Twitter or Facebook or stop by on the website.
If you haven’t been by my website in awhile, signing up for the newsletter sent every 6 weeks gives you a free copy of my advice on “Organizing & Life Changes: 10 Suggestions for Organizing through Change.”




ht, a beautiful “10-line Tuesday” poem arrived in my e-mail. A new client sent it, I believe because the poem explains how she sees the value of our organizing and coaching collaboration. I can’t wait to talk with her more about the poem.



