Interesting how thoughts converge sometimes.
Just before my international professional organizers’ conference of 850 attendees, I was reading Quiet: the Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking. It’s a fascinating, insightful, unexpected look at the introvert/extrovert facets and tendencies of our U.S. culture, the writing backed up by research, but quite readable. ‘
So here I was, reading about this topic, as I thought about conference:
- How would I handle a roomful of 850 people. What great energy, but would I get lost in a sea of faces and conversations.
- How would I find people I needed or wanted to connected with?
- How would online/social media relationship translate in person?
- This educational conference is useful but how could I get the most value out of it for the money and time spent?
And then a sentence popped out at me from my Nook book:
“One new honest-to-goodness relationship is worth ten fistfuls of business cards. ” (Quiet, page 263)
More and more, I’m realizing in our fast paced world, the context I hear or read information in is crucial to (a) absorbing the point and (b) using what I’ve just read/heard.
So what did this mean for conference?
Communities give context and strengthen relationships. My communities at conference and what they meant to me were:
- My Coach Approach colleagues – because when you’ve coached each other in small groups, you create stronger relationships. And since there are only about 40 of us in the U.S., we share something unique, too;
- My Institute for Challenging Disorganization colleagues – our membership is about 10% the size of NAPO (worldwide, NAPO is 4500-5000) – because we focus on the whole person, including the mental and physical health aspects, collaborating with related professionals when the client desires it. Our focus on chronically disorganized individuals strengthens our empathy, patience, creativity and indeed, our wisdom in what we learn from our clients;
- My organizers’ chapter colleagues - because some of us are on the Board together, and because all of us attending represent a piece of geography at this large conference;
- My author and blogger colleagues – for the love of writing, connecting, sharing and learning from each others’ writing;
- My Twitter and Facebook colleagues I follow, support and tweet with who have broadened my horizons outside of my geography, and know how to concisely pull out the essence of the sessions we attend!
So for you, when faced with a large group or wondering what value you’ll get: volunteer during the year or at conference to find your communities; take classes; get online if it makes sense for your business.
Make your world smaller but with stronger relationships. It’s far more fulfilling than those “fistfuls” of business cards.

#3 Business & personal emails – together or separate?

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